Dating bad boy traits

27-May-2019 23:30

Dating nowadays, I don't know if these girls are just making it more complicated then it should be.. I remember the dinner, movie, going bowling etc; but I was always taught to bring something to the date.. And generally chasing in a way that makes them feel special (a wink, a flirt, but certainly not too desperate or available) If you don't have these abilities naturally, practice.

Asking girls what they want to do on dates is certainly not it...

'Nice guy' usually means they see it as a transaction, be nice and polite then sex is required.

Um, no, I have standards and I have self-respect, and no, I don't put up with cr$p. Plus having a motorcycle helps gives you that bad boy image (even if you necessarily aren't).

I know most girls want a combination of good and bad boy.. What is the 'bad' boy traits that mature woman finds attractive..

and what are the 'non-boring' dates that you have been on that really stood out? are movies, dinners consider boring and 'good boy' dates now? I don’t generally do movies because well, you can’t actually chat or get to know someone.

Not everyone would agree though and I am sure Dinner Dates and the Movies still have their place, I really enjoy a good Dinner Date myself. I don’t think it’s a “bad” boy trait not to bring flowers, but like, on the first few dates, bringing flowers is just overwhelming. Both people are still trying to figure out if they like each other..one person is obviously signficantly more keen than the other it can feel a bit pressuring (to me anyway).

It does look like there is a conflict of dating rules for everyone. The idea of bringing flowers to a first date feels a bit like a school formal or an American movie or something from the 1950s. I wouldn’t necessarily say no to something like indoor rock climbing (although query whether you’d want to be in gym kit and a harness on a first date :p) and as the other poster said, a nice walk around a park can be just as nice.

Um, no, I have standards and I have self-respect, and no, I don't put up with cr$p. Plus having a motorcycle helps gives you that bad boy image (even if you necessarily aren't). I know most girls want a combination of good and bad boy.. What is the 'bad' boy traits that mature woman finds attractive..and what are the 'non-boring' dates that you have been on that really stood out? are movies, dinners consider boring and 'good boy' dates now? I don’t generally do movies because well, you can’t actually chat or get to know someone.Not everyone would agree though and I am sure Dinner Dates and the Movies still have their place, I really enjoy a good Dinner Date myself. I don’t think it’s a “bad” boy trait not to bring flowers, but like, on the first few dates, bringing flowers is just overwhelming. Both people are still trying to figure out if they like each other..one person is obviously signficantly more keen than the other it can feel a bit pressuring (to me anyway).It does look like there is a conflict of dating rules for everyone. The idea of bringing flowers to a first date feels a bit like a school formal or an American movie or something from the 1950s. I wouldn’t necessarily say no to something like indoor rock climbing (although query whether you’d want to be in gym kit and a harness on a first date :p) and as the other poster said, a nice walk around a park can be just as nice.No matter what 'rules' a girl has for guys in her life she will break them in a heartbeat for a guy she's attracted to.