Why is dating after divorce so hard

07-Mar-2019 14:24

We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.Here is what I have found: For single men the options are plentiful. It seems that the breakdown of available women fall into the following categories: 1.Once I was passed all the knee buckling pain and had come to the decision to finish my degree and become a Divorce Coach researching and understanding the pain caused by divorce was first on my list of things to understand so I could hopefully help other women move forward with their lives a hell of a lot faster than I did.To understand the emotional pain experienced during a divorce, it might help to discuss the two types of emotional pain, according to some psychologists.In my mind, as long as I continued to love him there was a chance he would come home again.Today I shake my head at all the things I did that prolonged my emotional pain.

Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.

Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.Yes they do want you to help raise their kids and do it all over again. If you have money, well that just makes you more attractive. Women in their 50’s – these women are your age and there are many available in this group.